Differences
This shows you the differences between two versions of the page.
| Both sides previous revisionPrevious revisionNext revision | Previous revision | ||
| books:buddhish [2023-12-24 23:08] – [Chapter 3: Path] awfki | books:buddhish [2023-12-30 00:36] (current) – [Chapter 10: The Middle Way] awfki | ||
|---|---|---|---|
| Line 1: | Line 1: | ||
| ====== Buddhish ====== | ====== Buddhish ====== | ||
| - | Yay! I put my notes on [[https:// | ||
| - | |||
| **Subtitle: A Guide to the 20 Most Important Buddhist Ideas for the Curious and Skeptical** | **Subtitle: A Guide to the 20 Most Important Buddhist Ideas for the Curious and Skeptical** | ||
| - | First, let's add a clarification to say that this book talks about the ideas of Buddhist | + | First, let's add a clarification to say that this book talks about the ideas of Buddhist religion. I do not consider |
| - | + | ||
| - | + | ||
| - | ====== WIP Below This Point ====== | + | |
| - | + | ||
| - | + | ||
| - | 2023-04-02: The introduction made me think I wouldn' | + | |
| - | + | ||
| - | < | + | |
| - | 2023-12-24: | + | |
| - | Here are the bits I highlighted and the notes I attached to the highlights. I often don't highlight enough to provide context here so if my comments don't give enough context then you'll have to read the book. < | + | |
| - | <hr> | ||
| ---- | ---- | ||
| ==== Chapter 2: Suffering ==== | ==== Chapter 2: Suffering ==== | ||
| Line 38: | Line 25: | ||
| >8. Right concentration: | >8. Right concentration: | ||
| - | Best break down I've read. These actually make sense as opposed to most renderings of The Eightfold | + | Best break down I've read, these actually make sense where most renderings of The Eightfold |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| > What makes Buddhism different from the science of the brain or the psychology of adult development is that it promises not to merely improve your life but to lead you to the very pinnacle of human achievement. | > What makes Buddhism different from the science of the brain or the psychology of adult development is that it promises not to merely improve your life but to lead you to the very pinnacle of human achievement. | ||
| - | I disagree strongly with " | + | I believe that Buddhist // |
| - | + | ||
| - | I think what Buddhism promises is relief from suffering. If you think that's the " | + | |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| > | > | ||
| - | There you go! It' | + | This is better. Buddhism is a really excellent set of tools, gifted us by an an ancient dead guy, that we can use to improve our lives. Buddhism is a toolbox. |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| ==== Chapter 5: Renunciation ==== | ==== Chapter 5: Renunciation ==== | ||
| - | RENUNCIATION | + | >RENUNCIATION |
| + | |||
| + | Explore this... | ||
| - | //DN: Explore this... | + | I highlighted the chapter head, not sure why. Maybe I'll have to read the chapter again to find out. |
| - | --- | + | |
| - | I highlighted the chapter head, not sure why. Maybe I'll have to read the chapter again to find out.// | + | |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| ==== Chapter 6: Non-Self ==== | ==== Chapter 6: Non-Self ==== | ||
| + | >see “reality as it is” | ||
| - | see “reality as it is” | + | I think that seeing " |
| - | + | ||
| - | //DN: I think that seeing " | + | |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| - | We find ourselves wrapped up in it all: striving after certain things we want, wishing certain things were different, being dissatisfied with our current situation, or telling ourselves stories and then reacting to them as if they were true. | + | >We find ourselves wrapped up in it all: striving after certain things we want, wishing certain things were different, being dissatisfied with our current situation, or <wrap hi>telling ourselves stories and then reacting to them as if they were true</ |
| - | //DN: Highlisted for the last bit. Making up stories and then believing them is a human specialty and probably our most common mistake.// | + | Highlisted for the last bit. Making up stories and then believing them is a human specialty and probably our most common mistake. |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| - | Someone whose karma (i.e., their previous actions, intentions, and experiences) has predisposed them in one particular direction | + | >Someone whose karma (i.e., their previous actions, intentions, and experiences) has predisposed them in one particular direction |
| - | + | ||
| - | //DN: I wish the kobo had a better keyboard so it was possible to make real notes. Again, I don't know why I highlighted this. | + | |
| - | Maybe for the definition of karma as just your general disposition as influenced by prior action.// | + | I think I highlighted this for the definition of karma as simply |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| - | Buddhism says that if you get better and better at concentrating on your constantly changing mental experience, you’ll find at the bottom of it all not a permanent self, but only a constant stream of impermanent, | + | >Buddhism says that if you get better and better at concentrating on your constantly changing mental experience, you’ll find at the bottom of it all not a permanent self, but only a constant stream of impermanent, |
| - | //DN: I'm not sure about " | + | I'm not sure about " |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| - | Arriving at this realization, | + | >Arriving at this realization, |
| - | //DN: No, we have not " | + | No, we have not " |
| - | I don't think it is. I think you have a flash of insight and you wake up. Then the next day you're a sleep walker again, but you're a sleep walker who was awake for awhile, and knows they can be again.// | + | I don't think it is. I think you have a flash of insight and you wake up. Then the next day you're a sleep walker again, but you're a sleep walker who was awake for awhile, and knows they can be again. |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| + | >Can you sense this freedom from my description above? Maybe give it a try next time you get cut off in traffic or in some other situation in which you feel intensely negative. Don’t try to control your reactions; just observe what’s happening “as it is.” Do the negative feelings flow through more easily? Do you feel lighter than you normally would? <wrap hi> | ||
| - | Can you sense this freedom from my description above? Maybe give it a try next time you get cut off in traffic or in some other situation in which you feel intensely negative. Don’t try to control your reactions; just observe what’s happening “as it is.” Do the negative feelings flow through more easily? Do you feel lighter than you normally would? Don’t take my word for it, but notice for yourself. Only you can say whether or not this perspective helps you. | + | This is a thing I appreciate about Buddhism, this attitude of "try it and see". You don't have to accept anything on anyones say-so. |
| - | + | ||
| - | //DN: This is a thing I appreciate about Buddhism, this attitude of "try it and see". You don't have to accept anything on anyones say-so.// | + | |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| ==== Chapter 7: Buddha ==== | ==== Chapter 7: Buddha ==== | ||
| - | We know that Awakening is equivalent to attaining human perfection, and that it comes at the end of a long path of practice and many lifetimes of good karma. We also know that the core characteristic of Awakening is the liberation from suffering that comes from giving up all identification with the self. | + | >We know that Awakening is equivalent to attaining human perfection, and that it comes at the end of a long path of practice and many lifetimes of good karma. We also know that the core characteristic of Awakening is the liberation from suffering that comes from giving up all identification with the self. |
| - | //DN: From Kobo: No... Well... Maybe, if you set the bar really low. | + | I don't believe that awakening has anything to do with perfection, human or otherwise. That's the fairy tale that a religion sells, not a realistic teaching that person can actually use to make their life better. Awakening is when you're not asleep. If you're paying attention to this moment as it happens then you're awake, you're awakened. If you're not then you're a sleep walker and your monkey brain is driving while you go along for the ride and pretend you're in control. (Robin Hanson' |
| - | ---- | ||
| - | Awakening is not human perfection. That's setting the bar way too high. That's the fairy tale version that a religion sells, not the realistic version that people can actually use to make their life better. Awakening is when you're not asleep. If you're paying attention to this moment as it happens then you're awake, you're awakened. If you're not then you're a sleep walker and your monkey brain is driving while you go along for the ride and pretend you're in control. (Robin Hanson' | ||
| - | // | ||
| ---- | ---- | ||
| ==== Chapter 8: Mindfulness ==== | ==== Chapter 8: Mindfulness ==== | ||
| - | When Buddhists talk about mindfulness, | + | >When Buddhists talk about mindfulness, |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| - | This is the meaning of mindfulness—of sati: remembering or recalling. It’s the act of again and again remembering to bring your attention back to the breath after it wandered away. | + | >This is the meaning of mindfulness—of sati: remembering or recalling. It’s the act of again and again remembering to bring your attention back to the breath after it wandered away. |
| - | //DN: THIS! Remembering that you are here and it is now!// | + | THIS! Remembering that you are here and it is now! |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| - | over time and with regular practice, I did notice positive changes. No overnight miracles, mind you, but slow and steady improvements. | + | >over time and with regular practice, I did notice positive changes. No overnight miracles, mind you, but slow and steady improvements. |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| - | But why, you ask, would anyone want to get good at mindfulness? | + | >But why, you ask, would anyone want to get good at mindfulness? |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| - | You may start to understand how you are identifying with your mental phenomena, taking it all personally and even basing your identity on it. You may start to gain some perspective on certain things you thought were so serious or so hard to deal with. In the Buddhist lingo, you may start to train your “monkey mind” instead of letting it rule you. | + | >You may start to understand how you are identifying with your mental phenomena, taking it all personally and even basing your identity on it. You may start to gain some perspective on certain things you thought were so serious or so hard to deal with. In the Buddhist lingo, you may start to train your “monkey mind” instead of letting it rule you. |
| - | //DN: I'm digging that metaphor, a trainer for the monkey mind. The Monkey is elephant sized and you'll never be the one in control, but you can train the monkey. | + | I'm digging that metaphor, a trainer for the monkey mind. The Monkey is elephant sized and you'll never be the one in control, but you can train the monkey. |
| The monkey has been there since you born and it started with some built in predispositions, | The monkey has been there since you born and it started with some built in predispositions, | ||
| - | You thought the monkey was you, so you were confused about why you couldn' | + | You thought the monkey was you, so you were confused about why you couldn' |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| - | Buddhist trainings that emphasize concentration often focus on generating what in the Pali language is called jhana, advanced states of absorption in which you become so concentrated on the object of meditation that the rest of the world melts away. When everything else disappears, you’re left with states of deep bliss, rapture, or stillness. Trainings emphasizing insight, on the other hand, focus on perceiving your chosen object of meditation as a manifestation of suffering, impermanence, | + | >Buddhist trainings that emphasize concentration often focus on generating what in the Pali language is called jhana, advanced states of absorption in which you become so concentrated on the object of meditation that the rest of the world melts away. When everything else disappears, you’re left with states of deep bliss, rapture, or stillness. Trainings emphasizing insight, on the other hand, focus on perceiving your chosen object of meditation as a manifestation of suffering, impermanence, |
| - | //DN: I suck at concentration but I've always been suspicious of the idea that you become so focused on one thing that everything else disappears. | + | I suck at concentration but I've always been suspicious of the idea that you become so focused on one thing that everything else disappears. |
| Why is this desirable? Pleasant, maybe, but why is it good for you? That seems like you're cutting yourself off from the world which seem like the opposite of what we're trying to achieve. | Why is this desirable? Pleasant, maybe, but why is it good for you? That seems like you're cutting yourself off from the world which seem like the opposite of what we're trying to achieve. | ||
| Line 141: | Line 119: | ||
| The three marks as found in a graphic novel about history (and so much more): | The three marks as found in a graphic novel about history (and so much more): | ||
| - | Everything changes, people are never satisfied, all identities are fictional.// | + | Everything changes, people are never satisfied, all identities are fictional. |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| ==== Chapter 10: The Middle Way ==== | ==== Chapter 10: The Middle Way ==== | ||
| - | Two contradictory things are true simultaneously. | + | > Two contradictory things are true simultaneously. |
| - | //DN: Non-duality. Not this OR that but this AND that and also not-this AND not-that. | + | Non-duality. Not this OR that but this AND that and also not-this AND not-that. |
| - | Stop thinking in binary, we live in an analog world.// | + | Stop thinking in binary, we live in an analog world. |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| - | //DN: The following are multiple highlights glommed together for brevity.// | + | The following are multiple highlights glommed together for brevity. |
| - | So let’s examine how the middle way would apply to race, shall we? | + | >So let’s examine how the middle way would apply to race, shall we? |
| - | ... | + | >... |
| - | If we strictly apply the ideas we’ve been discussing, we have no choice but to concede that “race” is as empty as all of the other concepts rattling about in our minds. | + | >If we strictly apply the ideas we’ve been discussing, we have no choice but to concede that “race” is as empty as all of the other concepts rattling about in our minds. |
| - | ... | + | >... |
| - | At the same time, though, let’s be honest: race is obviously very real | + | >At the same time, though, let’s be honest: race is obviously very real |
| - | //DN: No, race is not real just because people believe in it. But the impact | + | No, race is not real just because people believe in it. But the actions they take because |
| - | This might seem like splitting hairs but it an important distinction. Race, along with most other humans concepts, is essentially bullshit, but because people believe the bullshit they act in certain ways and it's the <b>actions</b> that are the problem.// | + | This might seem like splitting hairs but it an important distinction. Race, along with most other humans concepts, is essentially bullshit, but because people believe the bullshit they act in certain ways and it's the //**actions**// that are the problem. |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| - | To avoid falling into the trap of an emptiness-only viewpoint, Mahayana calls for a middle way. We need to strike a balance by acknowledging that from the Awakened perspective, | + | >To avoid falling into the trap of an emptiness-only viewpoint, Mahayana calls for a middle way. We need to strike a balance by acknowledging that from the Awakened perspective, |
| - | //DN: Interesting. If this is where Middle Way comes from then... yes.... but how is that useful. They (according to how I read this discussion) then turn around look at things entirely from the world of forms. | + | Interesting. If this is where Middle Way comes from then... yes.... but how is that useful. They (according to how I read this discussion) then turn around look at things entirely from the world of forms. |
| My assumption on reading the phrase " | My assumption on reading the phrase " | ||
| - | I'm interested to learn whether this is what Buddhists mean by middle way, but I'm still going to keep mine because it matches theirs and is more broadly useful.// | + | I'm interested to learn whether this is what Buddhists mean by middle way, but I'm still going to keep mine because it matches theirs and is more broadly useful. |
| - | ---- | + | And today ((2023-12-29)) I found that [[https:// |
| - | “Inferior Vehicle” | + | |
| + | Hmmm, I suppose that can be applied to the quote above to get what he's saying. | ||
| - | //DN: judging | ||
| ---- | ---- | ||
| + | > | ||
| + | |||
| + | judging | ||
| + | |||
| That was the Kobo comment. I was highlighting because if they say " | That was the Kobo comment. I was highlighting because if they say " | ||
| Note that as in so many other cases language lets us down here. Judging can be skillful judging or unskillful (or both and neither, non-dualism). | Note that as in so many other cases language lets us down here. Judging can be skillful judging or unskillful (or both and neither, non-dualism). | ||
| - | // | + | |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| - | From this viewpoint, creating welcoming spaces for groups that are often marginalized is a compassionate way of behaving and an obvious necessity for a meditation center in contemporary America. | + | >From this viewpoint, creating welcoming spaces for groups that are often marginalized is a compassionate way of behaving and an obvious necessity for a meditation center in contemporary America. |
| - | //DN: But you're spaces should be welcoming for everyone. It's fine if you go out of your way to make sure that certain groups know that they' | + | But you're spaces should be welcoming for everyone. It's fine if you go out of your way to make sure that certain groups know that they' |
| As an extreme example, if you don't create a safe space for the Nazi's then you are behaving unskillfully and you will never be able to reach the Nazi's and teach them a better way. You are writing them off as " | As an extreme example, if you don't create a safe space for the Nazi's then you are behaving unskillfully and you will never be able to reach the Nazi's and teach them a better way. You are writing them off as " | ||
| - | That said, there' | + | That said, there' |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| ==== Chapter 13: Compassion ==== | ==== Chapter 13: Compassion ==== | ||
| - | Collectively known as the “immeasurable states of mind” (si wuliang xin) in Chinese or the “heavenly dwellings” (brahma vihara) in Pali, they are as follows: | + | >Collectively known as the “immeasurable states of mind” (si wuliang xin) in Chinese or the “heavenly dwellings” (brahma vihara) in Pali, they are as follows: |
| - | + | > | |
| - | ■ Loving kindness (metta in Pali): a feeling of universal friendliness, | + | >■ Loving kindness (metta in Pali): a feeling of universal friendliness, |
| - | ■ Empathetic compassion (karuna): a feeling of wanting to remove the suffering experienced by other beings. | + | >■ Empathetic compassion (karuna): a feeling of wanting to remove the suffering experienced by other beings. |
| - | ■ Altruistic joy (mudita): a feeling of joy at the happiness and success of other beings, untinged by jealousy or pride. | + | >■ Altruistic joy (mudita): a feeling of joy at the happiness and success of other beings, untinged by jealousy or pride. |
| - | ■ Equanimity (upekkha): a feeling of tolerance, peace, and tranquility in the face of annoyances, including those caused by other beings.These four immeasurables were understood to go together as a set in Indian culture long before the Buddha’s time, and they appear in other Indian religious traditions as well. However, they were absorbed into Buddhism and came to be among its central ideas. The main idea behind the Buddhist discourses on this subject is that we can and should cultivate these positive states of mind. As is true with mindfulness or concentration, | + | >■ Equanimity (upekkha): a feeling of tolerance, peace, and tranquility in the face of annoyances, including those caused by other beings.These four immeasurables were understood to go together as a set in Indian culture long before the Buddha’s time, and they appear in other Indian religious traditions as well. However, they were absorbed into Buddhism and came to be among its central ideas. The main idea behind the Buddhist discourses on this subject is that we can and should cultivate these positive states of mind. As is true with mindfulness or concentration, |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| ==== Chapter 17: Buddhist ==== | ==== Chapter 17: Buddhist ==== | ||
| - | Orientalism, | + | >Orientalism, |
| - | //DN: I'm a little baffled that there' | + | I'm a little baffled that there' |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| - | The swastika is a symbol that was used all over ancient Eurasia as a sign of good luck and auspiciousness (the word means “conducive to well-being” in Sanskrit). It continues to be a prevalent symbol in Buddhism, and you can see swastikas adorning temples, decorating sacred objects, and even emblazoned on the chest of Buddhist statues all over Asia. Even after Hitler used the symbol in his Nazi emblem, it was never associated with Nazism or Aryan ideology in Buddhist cultures. As a result, it never lost its positive connotations. | + | >The swastika is a symbol that was used all over ancient Eurasia as a sign of good luck and auspiciousness (the word means “conducive to well-being” in Sanskrit). It continues to be a prevalent symbol in Buddhism, and you can see swastikas adorning temples, decorating sacred objects, and even emblazoned on the chest of Buddhist statues all over Asia. Even after Hitler used the symbol in his Nazi emblem, it was never associated with Nazism or Aryan ideology in Buddhist cultures. As a result, it never lost its positive connotations. |
| - | //DN: This is something that humans get wrong, especially the political left. | + | This is something that humans get wrong, especially the political left. |
| Never, ever, let evil have a symbol. | Never, ever, let evil have a symbol. | ||
| Line 217: | Line 199: | ||
| 🙄 😉 | 🙄 😉 | ||
| - | // | + | |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| - | Buddhists committed those violent crimes against humanity? | + | >Buddhists committed those violent crimes against humanity? |
| - | //DN: No, people who call themselves " | + | No, people who call themselves " |
| - | Buddhism or Christianity is just a suit that some assholes wear to justify whatever they want to do. Oh yes, they _believe_ that they' | + | Buddhism or Christianity is just a suit that some assholes wear to justify whatever they want to do. Oh yes, they _believe_ that they' |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| - | I believe that if someone finds claiming a Buddhist identity to be helpful in becoming a better person, then that’s great. If not, then that’s perfectly fine too. The most important thing to me is that we are cultivating wisdom and compassion, not what we call ourselves while we’re doing it! | + | >I believe that if someone finds claiming a Buddhist identity to be helpful in becoming a better person, then that’s great. If not, then that’s perfectly fine too. The most important thing to me is that we are cultivating wisdom and compassion, not what we call ourselves while we’re doing it! |
| - | //DN: I'm with you there!// | + | I'm with you there! |
| ---- | ---- | ||
| ==== Chapter 19: Interconnectedness ==== | ==== Chapter 19: Interconnectedness ==== | ||
| - | craving and aversion | + | >craving and aversion |
| - | //DN: I can't remember the terms I usually see around this, I think Joseph Goldstein usually says pleasant and unpleasant but I like craving and aversion and don't remember hearing them before. | + | I can't remember the terms I usually see around this, I think Joseph Goldstein usually says pleasant and unpleasant but I like craving and aversion and don't remember hearing them before. |
| They give a sense of leaning toward or away from something and Steve Hagen has me thinking about leaning a lot. If you're leaning you're unbalanced. | They give a sense of leaning toward or away from something and Steve Hagen has me thinking about leaning a lot. If you're leaning you're unbalanced. | ||
| And maybe when you're not taking the middle way you're unbalanced? | And maybe when you're not taking the middle way you're unbalanced? | ||
| - | // | + | |